I went to see the movie, The Butler, with my sister and niece
as it was my niece’s last night here in Bermuda before she heads back home to
Delaware and boy am I glad I did. Wow. I am almost speechless after seeing that
movie. I didn’t expect to be so moved by it. So affected by it. To see just how
far we all have come as a civilization over the span of the movie is
staggering.
The movie began with a black family picking cotton on a
plantation and ended with a black family going into the White House as the
first family of the United States. A black slave to a black president in a
little over a hundred years is meteoric. And we as a human race should be proud of all
those who risked their lives out in the open, those who did what they had to do
silently in the background, and those who died in their push to bring
segregation to an end.
There are many who have walked before us who have paved the
way for each of us to be in the position that we are in today. Some more
passively than others but sometimes that passiveness is as strong if not
stronger than the aggressor. But each having their place in our history – in the
way we are today. In the way we treat each other today.
What I gleaned from this movie is how each one of us has the
capability to change the perspective of others not by our words but by our
actions. How we can put a human face to an otherwise nameless and faceless
situation. How those who look down on the black men and women who have endured
much to pave the way for others. How some of the pioneering blacks had to wear two
faces as depicted in the movie such that others may have a seat at the table.
To have a son understand his father and a father understand
his son. With both seeking forgiveness from the other due to ignorance on behalf
of each other. How both understood at the end that they were both doing the
best they could based on the experiences they had ever had.
I am still in awe of where we have come from as a human
race. Even though I know we still have a long way to go to break down stereotypes
that are still prevalent today but I walked out of that movie feeling great
hope for our human race because we are resilient creatures. Here to learn
lessons from each other. To teach each other about each other so we can break
down the ignorance of each other.
I highly recommend the movie, The Butler, to anyone who
wants to see what forgiveness, tolerance and acceptance can do for us as human
beings. Showing how true Dr. Kind’s quote, Darkness can not drive out darkness;
only light can do that”, truly is. The only way we can take darkness out of our
world is to shine our light as brightly as we can and to be the change we want
to see.