Wow is all I can say. We are all just waking up this morning
after a full and special day for our daughter and our family.
Our daughter walked away last evening with the Little Miss
Paradise, Miss Congeniality, and Miss Photogenic titles in the Little Miss
Paradise Pageant and she blew us away. And I am so glad we allowed her to
pursue her dream. We were the sort of parents who thought pageants were frivolous for
girls and did not want our daughter to be a part of that whole scene. But seeing
her last evening come alive on stage with such poise, dignity and confidence we
knew we had done the right thing by allowing her to be who she wants to be.
Our daughter researched the pageant, found it then came to
us and asked us if she could enter. As parents, we were both hesitant about it
as we are of the philosophy that children should develop their whole selves
rather than just focusing on their physical selves and what they look like. But
she told us the Pageant was not just a beauty contest that it was about
building confidence and showing talents. It was about being on stage. Then we
talked to her about how she would feel if she did not win the pageant and her
answer was if she did not win, it would be just wonderful that she was on stage
doing the best she could. And she would learn from that experience to take her
to the next experience.
She chose every outfit she was going to wear. Her music for
her talent. Her formal dress she did not want her dad to see until she had it
on on the stage. She worked on her own to develop the answers she thought she
would be asked. She didn’t want us to know how she was going to answer the
questions because she wanted the whole night to be hers and not what we thought
she should say. She wanted everything to be a surprise to us. And did she ever
surprise us every step along the way.
From the moment she walked on the stage to the moment she
walked off we were mesmerised by our daughter. By our little girl who set a
goal for herself and more than exceeded it. A little girl who asked us to let
her be herself not what we thought she should be. A little girl who showed us
that when we follow our passions with dedication and truth, we will always come
out on top. Always feel like winners. And last evening she stood amongst 6
other young ladies who all did the best they could, built lasting friendships
with people she had not met before and gained so much more than just being in a
pageant. She gained validation that as long as she is being true to herself and
if it is her time, life will always reward her.
And what was priceless was when we were driving home and she
said she felt bad for the other girls because she won everything, I knew we are
raising our daughter right because even in her crowning moment, she was
thinking about the feelings of the other girls. Then when we got home, all of her friends and some of our friends had come to our house. All of them proud of her. All of them congratulating her and she being gracious
to share her win with them. Our hearts swelling with pride for the young lady
she is becoming and the friends she has by her side through thick and thin.
We would like to thank the Pageant organisers Mrs DeRoza, Miss Brangman, Miss Simmons, Miss Smith and Miss Galloway for all the work
they put into our young ladies. A thank you to all of the other contestants. A job well done to everyone who took part in
the Pageant. We are so proud of our daughter for just going for it and claiming
who she is. An invaluable lesson for a young lady developing who she is. An invaluable lesson to us as parent to learn how important it is to let our children be who they are.
Congratulations Ms. Sedona-Skye! Such an amazing achievement to win so many titles in one pageant but I knew from the moment I first met you that you have that special quality and any pageant you enter will be an amazing experience for you. Future Miss Bermuda, Future Miss World. No limits. A round of hugs to a very proud family, especially Mom! xo
ReplyDeleteThank you ShariLynn she was absolutely amazing. We are so proud of her and it is the example of all those who have made a difference in her young life that she is emulating and projecting.
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