I don’t know about you but this has been a very strange week
for me. A week of searching, seeking and trying to understand who I am and
where I am going. A week of questioning , probing. A week of great uncertainty.
Where my emotions have been all over the place. Sometimes calm. Others times
taking on everyone else’s energy and emotions then flying off the handle.
I have used meditation quite a lot this week to center
myself. Refocus. Asking the Universe for guidance. I’m usually a person that
can make decisions without too much effort as long as I have the information I
need to make decisions. But this week I have found myself faltering. Not making
decisions as fast as I would like. Not finding the information I need. Nothing
resonating within me.
So this morning I decided to sleep in. To miss the sun
rising. To just stay cocooned in bed. Letting my worries and concerns stream
through my mind. Unfiltered. Without stopping them. Just letting them come as
they saw fit. Surprised by how many there
were. Taking them in.
Through this process I realized at
the heart of my uncertainty is the fact that I am worrying about tomorrow. About
the fact that I am nearing 50 and my life is not where I thought it was going
to be. Leaving me wondering about how much time I have left to fulfill my
dreams. To show myself and my children how great the mind is as long as we
believe. To understand that as long as
we believe, as long as we stretch our imaginations, as long as we keep working toward
our dreams, we will achieve them.
But my question is, what if the life we dream of is not what
we are meant to achieve? What if we keep searching for something that
constantly seems to be beyond our reach? What happens then? Do we abandon that
dream or do we just keep going where we are and hope that like the butterfly, if
we stand still long enough it will flutter to us and land on our shoulder?
Is that what life is teaching me? That I need to give up
pursuing and instead try receiving as much as I can. That I need to be patient
and let life find me rather than me trying to find it. Is that why I slept in
this morning so I could understand that sometimes we just need to be right
where we are in the present moment in order to receive what we are meant to
receive. That if we are constantly moving in all different directions, changing
tactics and trying to reach our end goal before we are ready then we will end
up frustrating ourselves and others around us?
That all we need is ask once and then let go and if what we
ask for is meant for us we will achieve it. I am going to try to let go. To
surrender. Accepting sometimes I won’t be able to because I am human and
infallible. That I am full of imperfections and hopes and dreams. To learn to
trust I am as I am because I am. Allowing myself to surrender to the abundance
and treasures of the Universe to give myself space to receive.
Here’s to a lazy Saturday – giving myself permission to just
be….